OP,can you explain your issue without posting a ton of copypasted text in your thread.
Were you scammed by someone on Localbitcoins?Was your account blocked by some reason?
All I can see is that you don`t want to upload ID verification.I understand that.I`ve been using localbitcoins.com for about 2 years and never had any issue with a trader,but I will NEVER upload my ID on localbitcoins.I remember that Localbitcoins is based in Finland,so they have to comply with the EU laws.
I guess the situation is just "take it or leave it".If you want to use LBT,you have follow their rules.If you don`t like their rules,just leave them.