The lesson is never discuss your secret with a friend what can cause you embarrassment in the public and be happy with yourself, have confidence in yourself, i want to believe friends who gossip have low self esteem. they can't stand once personality hence they tarnish your image to pull you down just to let you know you have flaws or out of envy. i have learnt my lessons, at a stage i avoided them because i couldn't trust or stand them. i have made up my mind anybody that can't add value to mylife should get lost.