SO after like 9 million attempts and randomly picking backup wallets now I have 2.6 BWK. Yay? ...
So to understand, the explorer is showing your wallet has more BWK than your wallet shows?
Nah, it's what it should be, as per the official explorer's tx'es. I just have no idea what actually fixed it after all, but it seems to be good - for now.
Anyways - is there a good way to access my wallet from anywhere? Should I copy my wallet.dat to all my comps, or will that cause collisions? How do others do this?
Copying your Bulwark folder to all your devices will help, but any new wallet addresses you make will need to be sync'd over to all the others.
You could potentially use a service like Google Drive to sync your Bulwark folder between all your devices, which would also be convenient for ensuring you dont have to keep redownloading the blockchain whenever you move between devices, but that would then mean sending your wallet.dat over the potentially insecure 3rd party network.