My issue with op is you hid behind a newbie account.
I'm pretty sure that the reason for which they did that, given the sensitive nature of this subject, is because they are afraid of a negative rating for speaking out. It's what this place has turned in to, censoring via negatives and exclusions. 
for now here is the newer list
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You don't necessarily have to exclude users from your list (~) unless you distrust their ratings. In most cases, just deleting them from the list entirely will accomplish the same result.-ck
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