2. I have a few rigs on v11.5 and they are working for days until I restart miner to perform some new tests, but I always use non-overclocked cards and default bioses, I have to do it to exclude everything except miner in case of any problems. When you use miner on overclocked/unstable rig you cannot be sure that the reason of the problems is the miner, but of course you will blame it

Try to reduce "-ethi" value, if it does not help you can use the version that works fine for you.
I can confirm that the miner is behaving well with my cards with the following OCs:
NVidia GTX 1050ti: +600 memory, -100 gpu clock and 75% power (samsung memory)
AMD RX470 4GB: 1500 mem straps, 96 TDP, 1125 gpu clock, 2000MHz memory
AMD RX480 4GB: 1500 mem straps, 104 TDP, 1125 gpu clock, 2000MHz memory