Exchanges are experiencing some kind of regulations and it is a necessary step to get out of the wild wild west. But nobody really controls them yet and that's why I'm scared. They have my info and they can do anything with it.
You want more control? In such case you should forget about cryptocurrency and become a forex trader. Then you'll have something that not only is controlled on every level because exchanges are licensed and overseen, the overseeing authorities fall under the government, and even the money that you're trading belong to certain governments.
The role of crypto is to break the circle, not to become another fake token that you don't own.