Seriously? You are already a Full Member and you should've already knew how Merits System works

You can get Merits from other members of the forum. It is given to a deserving post. That is how you can to get Merits.
And also, posting a thread about Merit is now prohibited because it has been posted/created so many times. A topic like this has been already posted a lot of time here in the Forum and posting more threads repeatedly will be considered as a spam. Please be aware of that.
If you really want to seek for answers to your questions. I recommend you to use the search function of the thread. I'm sure that you will find something helpful.
And about this
P.S. Are there really good guys that are giving away merit points when they see that the posts are on point and well constructed?
Yes, there are some threads in Archival and Economy>>Services that gives away Merits for constructive posts. If you are confident and you think that your post deserves Merit, then go and try your luck.