Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
I think it's a bad relationship. how will it be if you will fight your partner in gambling? then if you lose and all the money runs out is not that a big problem?