if you not like kyc then stay away, very simple
most decent exchanges require kyc if you want to deal in decent amounts
blockchains and the info held are generally open and visible by nature unless your dealing fully with otc deals and totally private coins, vps, your own server, etc etc then you are probably on a .gov database somewhere as a probable crypto currency holder
pay your taxes and encourage the growth of crypto
You can stay away when you have been given a choice, having been informed that a KYC will be required BEFORE you close a deal. If you suddenly come up with a KYC request AFTER that a deal has been closed, at it now has started to happen with some bounty campaigns, then the imposition of a KYC is a total abuse.