Good day, about ico rating/listing sites, are they legit?
They are legit websites that are advertising those ICOs.
do they evaluate truthfully?
Not all of them, some are just listing ICOs because they are paid.
do they really have have experts?
Experts on analysis about those ICOs? Have you read an ICO rating with bad review?
they rate an ICO depending on their payment to them?

This is the reality.