First I would snap get a divorce because what is the point of being unhappy that is the dumbest thing anybody could do. Second I hope you had a pre-nup because if you didn't your ass is getting taken most likely in court. I also hope you didn't have a kid with this women because more likely than not, you will lose access to them to (for no good reason). If I were ever to get a marriage it would involve a pre-nup and I would maybe get a post-nup.