If that's the case I have no problem to apologize to him...
My suggestion would be to refrain from jumping to rash conclusions and acting out in this way towards people that you do not know anything about. I don't know that person either, but the way you approached the situation was disgusting, in my opinion.
I'm willing to negotiate the rate and the amount of the trade, but not the time. I can do a 22% for 140 usd, and then wait some days to trade again, but I'm not waiting until you get your money out of Pokerstars, it's too risky.
See, that's my dilemma. It seems too risky to just give you the
BTC once you share your password to an account that you can recover, change the password to or do anything else that you wish. I want to do what is going to keep me safe, there is no risk involved if an escrow holds the funds until I get my money out of Pokerstars. What is the risk with an escrow involved?