I am sincerely sorry to hear about that over internet forums where the person who did this sits and laughs.  It seriously is a fucked up situation, and I hope this text does not come across as sarcastic or something.  It is sad the draw for Bitcoin yet the draw for security among the users is not even.  So let me ask, are you here on the forums just for this particular situation or do you have actual interest in Bitcoin?  (and of course, did this situation effect your previous thoughts, if any).