vm1990
Thanks for your response. Shame I'm in Australia.

If I was in the UK I wouldve preffered to getting it fixed by you and then letting you mine with it for a week.

I think I will have to find a PC repair shop that has a Hot air soldering station. I did try to very gently bend down the pins but I snapped one.
I think if I dont find a solution in the next week I may auction it off on here. A few tenths of a bitcoin is better than nothing.
Will keep yas updated.
if you do decide to sell it id be more than happy to bid on it

its a shame i really want one to
im pretty convinced if you have the right soldering iron attachments and a very very steady hand you could solder it back on but it is very hard work (i have burnt myself many time with a soldering iron to prove this)
also the eithernet jacks are pretty easy to pick up and most are standard they cost around £1 in the UK at most