If the issue is counter party risk then I would suggest opening a bank account in the same bank as bitstamp and use in-bank (I'm not sure about the proper expression in English) transfers - they're instant. You can than keep bigger amount in your own bank account.
I don't want to speak for the bitfinex team, but that is not the issue at all. Please donate one btc cent: 1J14J1ZR11CsFKXyhneXpfVBp34ovQuh7C