To find an ICO suitable for you, use the rating sites and listings of new projects, where you can choose the most suitable projects.
did you really trust in sites rating for ICO? you even cant blame that sites if anything happened
my advise will be the same, you can learn about XYO and take very good research on it, Daostack and Shivom was pretty good to invest but hardcap reached and sale was closed, visit Essentia you will find good and potential project there.
trust nobody, do learn from each one of my advise...use your intuition, look every detail informationa they provides