I think that I'm gonna wait for a traditional PPLNS pool without lags :/
if your connection is bad (someone had 30-40% stales yesterday) obviously p2pool or any pooled mining is bad (on p2pool its just alot worse).
you should run a own bbqcoin p2pool instance and see if its better.
I can get 5 MB/s while downloading with Bittorrent so I don't think that I have a bad connection
But i like having a monitor that shows all the stats
And obviously I like the PPLNS system :S