UPDATE: so I decided to cancel this trade with Teckno2020. Reason because the funds were intended for a purpose- which is why I was selling. I rather not wait anymore since Ive been waiting a few days. Plus I was Leary and I have a right to feel like that. So I messaged Teckno2020 telling him to ask for his escrowed funds back. While I know real life can happen- I did not expect this. This trade started 5/9/18 and now its the 12th and minerjones isnt coming back til the 14th (so to speak). I dont know what to make of it but I need to cancel. Its a bunch of mess. I am safely backing out at this point and Im sure minerjones will return his funds. Nothing is lost.