No transaction should ever take two weeks. Something didn't work, I'm still too much of a newb to figure out what went wrong but I can promise you that two weeks isn't right.

You can search on this site using the address you sent from or to and if it's not there it wasn't broadcast and isn't in the blocks. http://blockexplorer.com/

Those telling you to leave the wallet running longer must not have read your entire post. You have let it run way longer than it should take, something else went wrong. Wish I could help more but I'm a newb to bitcoin too, but have sent a few transactions so I know it doesn't take anywhere near that long. Good luck