You need to request your bank to chargeback the funds you transferred. This is the only way you will see your money from BTC-e. I am sorry to hear yet another person being taken/scammed/ignored by BTC-e.

If you plan on just buying BTC and holding, I would recommend Bitstamp or MtGox. If you want to trade and eventually want Euro back, I would recommend Bitstamp at the moment.