I would really be hestitent to do business with a guy who isn't even familiar with escrow...
Before you make a post trying to make a purchase of BTC, please do your homework so you can avoid a lot of this kind of confusion later.
Well mate i did my homework there is no confusion and i know escrow.com , ok , and i said from the start i am willing to pay through PP , i didn't ask for escrow , its not the issue of who send first , that's not the issue here , and i gave a proof of positive feedback in another forum .