oh, i forgot to mention: i got the last quarter of my money on monday.
i am happy that it finally worked out, and that, after i complained here on the forum it took 4-10 days to get my money.
i am sad that i had to complain on the forum.
@mtgox: if transactions are rejected by the bank, NOTIFY the user and refund the money to his/her mtgox account. that is just good business practice. everything else smells very fishy.