Though I didn't expect that you would like this alternative, which was pretty clear right from the start
The problem with your alternative is that it's immoral to make that the only choice.
Another point that I don't quite understand. You seem to erroneously assign me as the true culprit here whereas, actually, it was exactly my alternative of moving to another country in the first place that was torn to pieces and thrown out of the window. May I hope for a bit of objectivity here? Is it immoral too or what?