So I was actually sending coins from one wallet to the other wallet, and now I can see that the transaction is unconfirmed in both wallets, so I have coins stuck in a transaction, can't cancel the transaction, but also it won't show as confirmed (despite showing as confirmed on explorer.biblepay.org)
Strange, In the past Ive heard of the "-zapwallettxes" parameter,
"removes all wallet transactions that are not in the blockchain. It can remove "stuck" transactions"
https://bitcoin.stackexchange.com/questions/45988/how-do-you-apply-zapwallettxes-on-windowsI have a PODC Update transaction that is unconfirmed and the coins are missing, so I may be testing it in a minute
UPDATE: It worked! My unconfirmed transaction was removed and my coins are back
Thank you all for trying to help.
So I just left both of the wallets running at the same time, and now everything is resolved. I bave no idea what happened.