thanks for your help PoroShok.
the wallet seen the node but wallet still not sync, even I left the wallet open for three days but nothing change, i'm using win 10 x64.
is there any special setting for this wallet?
The problem is in the wallet. It connects to other net. And the search for nodes takes a long time. You can specify -bantime=10, then bad nodes will be disconnected faster.
try next nodes:
addnode=94.156.174.151:62126
addnode=coins.prohashing.com:6265
addnode=88.164.70.252
addnode=80.211.1.45
addnode=148.251.126.230
addnode=47.153.170.238