I used Zelle, which I didn’t realize didn’t carry protection like PayPal and Venmo, even though it’s pushed by my bank. And regarding the lawyer question, that would cost A LOT more than the money I’ve lost, so from an economical standpoint it doesn’t make sense. I’ve contacted the police, so we’ll see how that plays out, especially considering he has an extensive history of fraud.

As for the comments about being more careful and Doug research, I get that now, and your comments really aren’t helpful under the circumstances. I’m looking for constructive help, and if you don’t have any, then don’t bother posting.

Regarding his identity, I’ve traced his real identity to multiple sources, and finally gotten him to admit who he is, even after he and his wife both denied all my allegations. Needless to say his story keeps changing the more I press him, and like any scammer he always has a vague excuse about where things are at, and great comments to deflect the conversation.