They don't run their nodes,
You made it impossible to run it under NAT. 
they don't support bounties
I wanted to participate in some bounty yesterday but didnt find its addresses in two topics on this forum. 
they don't take part in Nxt promotion.
You cannot expect everyone to be a good promoter. 
he can quit this project and join other cryptocoin
This blackmail thing is very sad 
To be angry because of this - is like to be angry because of stars on the sky. The things that are completely out of your control. I think it is a symptom.