Do your own research.
Are you expecting that someone will give you the "next big" ICO? No.
Expect those people will just come here and endorse their upcoming ICO's and will say bla bla bla this is the next big thing.
Agree with what you said, do an intensive research to further knowledge in every ICO to take in, don't listen to what you hear and read about there ICO's because of most probably they are not sure the outcome of the project, it's your own choice should prevail so that when it fails there is no one to blame and if it succeeds then it can boost your confidence that really belong in this community.