I am a newbie and wonder if there are any reliable ICO listing websites that list the more reliable and the best ICOs out there? I thought ICObench is a good place to start with, but some say that it's BS...
Icoalert,
https://www.icoalert.com/? Simply google ICO calendar/or similar and you will find some good sites.
Not sure how reliable they are but they could be a good place to index the current ICO's, and to then continue researching/inspecting the ones you like.
I myself also would never just trust 1 site. They could easily be bought off/manipulated into giving a false review, even the biggest sites out there.