I am a newbie and wonder if there are any reliable ICO listing websites that list the more reliable and the best ICOs out there? I thought ICObench is a good place to start with, but some say that it's BS...
You can try to check out these sites for ICO listings:
https://icobench.com/icoshttps://www.coinschedule.com/https://icowatchlist.com/Remember that just because they are listed doesn't mean the ICO is reliable or "the best". They've just gone through the process of being verified by that particular site. There are a lot more listing sites and more are being developed and launched every day.