I will try the fan thingy first if it worked it will be great.
If it wasn't enough.... Will the cable extender stuff make it any better?
Edit: I downloaded a program called trixx, down-clocked the memory, and got a fan facing the open case, the temp is now 88.
and i noticed something, two cards are x8 and one is x16, does this have to do anything with my situation?
Bummer, but good that you tried the obvious first.

I was desperate so i pushed all the buttons lol