if youve set up the wallet as a server then all you have to do is point the miner to that computer you dont need stratum proxys just point the mining gear to that wallet and your solo mining
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I've tried this. When I set my "pool addresses" to my IP (I'm on a router, so 192.168.x.x) and I have the wallet running as a server, it never connects and the cubes themself  never show a hashrate. I'm also assuming that neither CGMiner or BFG Miner could be used in this situation.