gambling is not so safe online because of the risks you discussed which are against our security. If you want to stay away or want to get rid of these insecurities then simply follow gambling in casinos or any other place where you can start gambling where there gamblers follow the rules to play on a good manner. Online gambling is very good on rated sites but if you are not sure about it then follow traditional way.
It is not like there is no rules in gambling online as there are still some terms and conditions, but the only thing here is you are all to yourself and you really would not have much rule to break since all you have to do is play and do whatever you feel like.
It is highly impossible to cheat the system anyway and most of the time, with the provably fair, you are still losing anyway. One thing though is that with real casino, I feel there are better chances of winning with some strategies and a lot of luck than in online casinos.
Do you really care about rules and regulations in gambling? You are making double mistake here. One, you are gambling and ruining your life. Second, you are doing this with crypto. These coins are considered as the supreme one in the market right now. People are dying to buy them as they are so helpful for everyone to make money from them. And there is you who are trying to lose them.