I'm not sure your XP in a chat you're moderating qualifies as anything more than upvoting chats you are currently in control of. As to "bonding" that remains one of those elusive human interests that is met when two people see eye to eye, if you knew how I felt about "bonding" then you would know the term should be more defined and transparent. As should "active in discord," I currently have at least 10 posts to your discord, none of which I felt closer to anyone from. This is the internet and you are concerned with bonding. Please remember the statement, "I could be a 45 year old dude named Chuck, living in my mother's basement." Bonding over the internet is not an experience that can be objective nor universally defined.  Please define your desires to better help those who do not wish for "friends on the interwebz," but are interested in creating a Privacy focused POS cryptocurrency, where the electrical consumption dwarfs Monero's giant POW nightmare. (Virus' and background mining in the crypto era)