No reasons to be nervous! I guess Dev shifted priorities lately. Dev worked on Shield 3.0 (updating XSH to Bitcoin Core 0.16). This move was necessary to get away from the original forked Verge code. As you may know Verge experienced a 51 % attack lately. So moving away from the Verge code is a good thing. I just downloaded the new wallet 3.0. Up to now everything works just fine. So Dev did a great job! They have my full trust. I'm pretty sure they will catch up soon with the roadmap. So I wouldn't worry too much

Yes you're right, the 3.0 updates was our priority, we're going to update the roadmap to make it more clear soon.