first of all this affiliate thing you are talking about is against the rules of all the exchanges that have this system and they can easily close down both your accounts and take your money and never give it back to you.
secondly if you are really a half decent trader and can make profit from this market there is enough profit for you in a trade that you never need the tiny affiliate reward they give you in comparison.
if exchanges oppose even after KYC than i must say it is not a good idea but if you have full KYC of different IDs its legit. everybody in family have different bank accounts which is legit and we get referral bonus too by some banks.
and I'm a quarter decent trader for sure and i am not tiny affiliate reward it is that company or exchange giving us for their promotions which is indeed my reward.
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