UPDATE
it seams that the info on mullick being unwilling to help is incorrect and infact he just hadn't received my communications due to the amount of spam / has been busy with cryptsy
I am having a chat with him now to see what he can do to help

Best place to keep coins at the moment?
Wallet or Cryptsy
If coins are in one or other place at the moment, assume it best to leave them where they are?
well i transfered a few hundred k coins i bought from cryptsy to the wallet, but they do not arrive because of the sync problem, so i am sure to best leave them were they are..