No matter what manner you state the truth, whether be it in an amicable or in an angry manner, it's really annoying and it hurts. It pierces even unto the innermost chamber of one's soul, but you have to say it anyway, and it deserves acceptance. I'd rather be told a disheartening truth rather be told a flattering lie, 'coz at the end of the day, truth will always come out, and there's nothing we can do but to accept it and improve or change what needs to be improved or changed.