I wouldn't say I understand the trust system very well, if I would then perhaps I could save my account from the neg by hilariousandco. Anyway it's irrelevant here.
Being a DT is a great responsibility. You are one of those trusted member who are representing the entire forum reputation. It's good to see that
you think twice before leaving a feedback and I hope all the DTs do the same, even after they leave a feedback (heads up to
marlboroza). There could be situations where you could be wrong for your judgement and admitting it - is not gonna make you less respectful.
The feedback from elsie34 is an untrusted feedback so it does not matter. Seems like the person wanted to give you a positive one but end up selecting the wrong option. I used to leave a neutral trust if I felt that I was given red for a wrong reason (now a days I don't even care ever since I got the red and another neutral from Lutpin. The Lutpin one did not affect me much mentally but the hilari one destroyed me mentally) to explain why I was misjudged. I think leaving neutral is ok when you see you need to defend a red. Leaving red to defend an unnecessary red is kind of abusing the trust system especially when you are a DT coz your trust counts.
Well-done on the topic.
I would advise you not to leave a retaliatory feedback just for that. If you were not on DT, it might be arguably OK but my feeling is that you have to pull back a lot when you're on DT.
Correct, for a non DT it's ok to do whatever they want (use/abuse of anything), nobody counts but once someone become a DT then they are basically a role model/an example for the forum.