But the biggest fuck-up of all: Lightning Network / Lightning Labs is led by Elizabeth Stark. If you like train wrecks, get Elizabeth to lead us there.
You can see for yourself
how Lightning works...
For crying out loud, I really doubt that there are only men in the industry of cryptocurrency. Very impossible if you think about it. There will be probably 1:1 ratio of men against women in the industry of cryptocurrency. It's for everybody regardless of sex and preferences.