That is true, merit ruined my life too.
I talk in my sleep, and and my wife asked me who is that Merrit I am talking to whole night, I didn't know what to say, she asked me am I cheating her with Merrit and finally I had to tell her about my relationship with Merrit.
She took kids, all my money and credit cards and left me.
I blame Theremos for ruining my life
Its just sick, like in the real world, the rich get richer, its insane do something about it.
I told her OK, take kids and you can go, but please return me my credit cards but she says noo 
, now you will become poor because of Merrit.