I seriously feel pitty for you. God bless you.
How is possible to do them both? You feel pitty for him but at the same time, you ask from God to bless him?!

I feel pitty that why I prayed to god for him

Hey if I may say so attacking vod back will get you absolutely nowhere. He is a longterm user of the site and earned every bit of trust he has, vod does not forgive if you do not ask Vod for forgiveness, and using his name in vain will get you nowhere, and honestly probably just more red trust just saying, only helping a brother out.