i cant mine with the kush wallet no such option on this one?

you can its a bit hidden because usually people use the 3rd party miners.
At the top of the client
Help
Debug Window
Console Tab
Type in this:
setgenerate true -1
that will start your mining
you can then type
getmininginfo
and you will be able to find your hashespersec there to see if its working

you can type help in the console to get a list of other commands