But to answer your question it is spitting out addresses starting with 3
If you copy that address and paste it somewhere else, do you get the same address?
wish there was someway to pull the money off. I would gladly pay if someone knew what to do.
Paying someone doesn't help (and don't believe it when you receive such an offer by PM!). Without the private key, you can't access the funds.
Your best chance would be to figure out where the 12ngg~ address came from, and how it forwarded your funds. Whatever happened is the key to your funds, but at this point I think it's very unlikely for you to recover it.