But if you refuse the shipment due to customs, how can it be considered that you are the owner? You refused to take delivery.....

Dude, really ?

Ofc im not refusing the shipment

Is this some bad joke or just a post count ?
I do not refuse to take my item and own it, i just don't have the money and i didn't know i should pay something to own it.
Im not refusing the delivery ofc and even if i refused it which is not the case, when you become owner of something even if you refuse to pick it you still remain the owner, the thing just wait you somewhere till you want to pick it, because you are owner of it.
Jeez..