My gf is pretty angry at me regarding bitcoin to be honest. If Id cashed out at the ATH Id have become a millionaire. At the current prices with my HODLED stash, Im not.
She keeps telling me
bitcoin is finished, it must be over, you should have cashed out, well never get another chance like that.Its times like this I look at different charts from the past that show % drops from ATHs & then look at the subsequent recoveries & new ATHs that makes me smile & know everything will be ok.
Look out for 6-12 months after the next halving, thats when I believe we will be wealthy bulls

A GF is one thing, but a wifey would be another thing.
Perhaps your GF knows too much about your bitcoin stash, especially if her status remains GF, and it may be time to NEXT her or are you planning some kind of longer partnership with her? Another possibility would be waiting for 2021, in order to NEXT her?
Whether you are in a close relationship or not, it seems problematic to have a significant other influencing your financial choices, if you have a joint venture, such as a business or a marriage that concludes that your BTC stash is also owned by your partner, then you might have to account for the less bullish posture of the other person(s) in the relationship....
Even though I agree that bitcoin has great chances of success in the coming years, I am not your business partner, so my opinion does not matter, yet we know that if we have total discretion over our investment decisions and we end up being wrong, then we should also be able to calculate how much we will lose, whether that is opportunity costs with our money or actual losses from being wrong.