that's not the problem, everyone can work hard to get what it deserve. nut it's just to point out that some newbies can get to Jr Member or even Member just by having a "Friend" being in a much higher level for whatever reason.
if your post had not started out like a bleeding vagina I would of given you the merit.. so yes, saying anything is unfair isnt the way to deal with it - fuck anyone else, worry about yourself and if needed improve yourself to get to your goal.