Who's your husband. That account deserves a merit somewhere I'm sure.
I feel so sad about it and have refused talking to him now,
I thought you were trying to punish him

I respect your husband's decision and would do the same to my wife, mind you shed probably get banned for trolling or something anyways.
If you truly want to be a junior member just go out there and post, be helpful or contribute in some way. If you can't earn a merit that way you don't deserve the rank.