I have attempted to reach member status, but it looks like it will not be achievable.
Grant me guidance and show me how to obtain some merits.
The first thing you've to do is to make your tone as good as the one in this post. Next, read this ten times a day; if possible, take a print-out of the whole page and paste it on your bed so that you may remind yourself of the tips every night:
https://www.wikihow.com/Control-Abusive-Language