keep this on the side first issue right now is how to get 1 golden merit to become jr member again ?

btw how many jr members were here who becomes newbie again 😄including me 

You are not alone, it has happened to us twice. The first time I figured out what the problem was that lead to it but the second time I could not work out what the problem was. I get the feeling moderators are swamped and do not have time to explain each action or answer every enquiry, I think if you just stick at it you will figure out what to do differently